My Word

My Word.

I’m Back!!!! For Good…..

I’m Back!!!! For Good…...

I’m Back!!!! For Good…..

Ok so I am back….I know I know a few months ago I damn near made the same commitment but this time I mean it….. When I committed to a POST A DAY I thought I could do it, its not difficult to find time in the day to commit to writing, it only takes a few minutes with your thoughts and the words appear….Or do they???

The more I avoid writing the more I catch myself writing, planning a new book, a new blog, a new poem, buty never following through…. I took some time to figure out why that was the case and I have finally figured it out….

No matter how much I pride myself in being honest, one common theme behind my honesty is that it hurts people’s feelings and I don’t enjoy that part of it…. So basically my not wanting to hurt people I care about has vcaused me to push myself back and to a stagnant position….Its a miserable place to be and in discovering this, I have disvovered that no matter who’s feelings I hurt at the end of the day, my thoughts and my feelings are just that, and I have every right to feel that way I do and write it and express it.

See. writing is therapeutic for me, it helps me to reflect on things in my life and allows me to learn from those things in order for me to move on. I feel that not writing is just making me bottle my emotions up and that creates a more volatile situation for me and those in my life, and so now I declare my refusal to hold anything back….

And So I now so BOLDLY declare, that I am Back!!!!! For Good…..

 

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Main Ingredient: Determination

Main Ingredient: Determination.

Misrepresentations of Self

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advice, growth, honest, honesty, personal growth, self

 Originally written: 06/17/2011

 

       I’ve personally witnessed individuals pave their own misery by attempting to fulfill an image they created. The image is developed so that the individual is viewed in a positive light to others. What these individuals fail to realize is that no one is flawless and living up to a fictional image is impossible.
        Fulfillment can be found within oneself. To achieve self fulfillment I would suggest an HONEST self assessment and I emphasize honest because not everyone is willing to admit certain faults. If one is unwilling to be honest with themselves, this exercise is completely fruitless.
        It all begins with a true evaluation of ones negative and positive traits. Simply developing a list of those traits under the appropriate category can provide one with an entirely fresh perspective. Are you happy/satisfied with what you have discovered about yourself? If not, which traits would you like to work on? Once an individual has determined what they would like to change, they can effectively apply that change.
        By self evaluating and assessing one can become a better individual from within, which will inevitably reflect in the exterior. Then one experiences true self worth, satisfaction and personal growth. Consequently, one is seen in a positive light by others, but only because one was willing to genuinely look within, applied and achieved self happiness. Until an individual accepts responsibility for their flaws, they will continue a fruitless attempt at living up to a fictional image, thus giving the people in their life, Misrepresentations of Self!!!

Hello world!

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blog, family, hello, welcome

Hello World is the appropriate title for my first post. Hello Everyone! My name is Jessica Sinncere Flores but my friend’s call me Sinncere or Sinn for short. I am a mother of five children and the best part of the day is walking in the door after a long day and having them run to the door excited to see me, say hello and hug me as if I had been gone for months. I would not trade that part of my day for anything in this world. The unconditional love the children have for me warms my heart more than anything. Life is beautiful because they make it that way. Before the children my life had been dark and full of pain. Now, no matter what may not be going the way it should, there is a brightness in my day that does not fade.

I have started this blog to express myself, inform, educate and hopefully amuse amongst other things. So with that  I say, Welcome, Thanks for Visiting and Hello World!

Thanks,

Sinncere